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Introduction

Calling non-Muslims to Islam

Chapter 3

21613: A Christian is asking whether it is possible for him to enter Islam

Question:

Hello my name is XXX and i live in sweden. I am not muslim, but i am wery interested about it. Is it possible for someone like me to become a muslim? I feel that the islam beliefs are just like my thoughts. I want to know more about it.


Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

We welcome you as our guest to this website, and we greatly appreciate your interest in Islam, because this is the means by which you may be guided, if Allaah wills. Your saying that the religion of Islam is just like your thoughts is a sign that your way of thinking is good and sound, and that your nature is good because it is in tune with the truth and ready to accept it. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Allaah's Fitrah (i.e. Allaah's Islamic Monotheism) with which He has created mankind"[al-Room 30:30]

With regard to your question about whether it is possible to become a Muslim, the answer is yes indeed. Hasten to do so and do not hesitate. We welcome you as a questioner now and as a Muslim brother in the near future, if Allaah wills.

We congratulate you for this good start and for opening your heart to Islam, and for wanting to learn about it. All that you have to do is embrace Islam by uttering the Shahaadatayn (twin testimony of faith), then start to practice Islam and follow its laws. You will find answers to some important questions under the numbers 703, 378, 6703 and 12373.

We will be happy to answer any questions in the future and to help you to understand this great religion. Thank you once again. Peace be upon those who follow true guidance.

Islam Q&A Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid (www.islam-qa.com)

21010: Woman between the honouring of Islam and the humiliation of Jaahiliyyah

Question:

The west accuses Islam of oppressing women. What is the status of woman in Islam?


Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

In Islam, woman has a high status which no past nation ever achieved and which no subsequent nation has been able to attain, because the honour which Islam gives to humanity includes men and women equally. They are equal before the rulings of Allaah in this world and they will be equal with regard to His reward and punishment in the Hereafter. Allaah says (interpretation of the meanings):

"And indeed We have honoured the Children of Adam"

[al-Isra' 17:70]

"There is a share for men and a share for women from what is left by parents and those nearest related"

[al-Nisa' 4:7]

"And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable"

[al-Baqarah 2:228]

"The believers, men and women, are Awliya' (helpers, supporters, friends, protectors) of one another"

[al-Tawbah 9:71]

"And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in terms of honour.

And lower unto them the wing of submission and humility through mercy, and say: `My Lord! Bestow on them Your Mercy as they did bring me up when I was young'"

[al-Isra' 17:23-24]

And Allaah says (interpretation of the meanings):

"So their Lord accepted of them (their supplication and answered them), "Never will I allow to be lost the work of any of you, be he male or female" [Aal `Imraan 3:195]

"Whoever works righteousness — whether male or female — while he (or she) is a true believer (of Islamic Monotheism) verily, to him We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter)" [al-Nahl 16:97]

"And whoever does righteous good deeds, male or female, and is a (true) believer [in the Oneness of Allaah (Muslim)], such will enter Paradise and not the least injustice, even to the size of a Naqeera (speck on the back of a date stone), will be done to them" [al-Nisa' 4:124]

There is nothing in any other religion, nation or law that can compare to the honour which woman gains in Islam. The Roman civilization decreed that woman was a slave who belonged to man, and had no rights at all. In Rome a major synod met to discuss the case of woman, and decided that she was a being who had no soul, and that therefore she would not inherit life in the Hereafter, and that she was evil.

In Athens women were regarded as chattels; they were bought and sold, and were regarded as evil, the handiwork of the devil.

The ancient laws of India state that disease, death, Hell, snake venom and fire were all better than woman. Her right to life came to an end when her husband's _ or master's _ life ended. When she saw his body burning she would throw herself into the flames; if she did not do so, she would be subject to curses.

With regard to woman in Judaism, the ruling on her in the Old Testament is as follows:

"So I turned my mind to understand,

to investigate and to search out wisdom and the scheme of things

and to understand the stupidity of wickedness

and the madness of folly.

I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare,

whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains…"

(Ecclesiastes 7:25-26 _ New International Version)

It is known that the Old Testament is venerated and believed by both Jews and Christians.

This was the situation of woman in ancient times. With regard to her situation in the Middle Ages and in modern times, this will be explained by the following:

The Danish writer Wieth Kordsten explained the view of the Catholic Church towards women. He said: "During the Middle Ages very little care was given to women, following the teaching of the Catholic church which regarded woman as a second class creation." In France, a council in 586 CE decided to research the case of woman and whether she was to be counted as human or not. After some discussion, they decided that woman was human, but she was created to serve man.

The 217th clause of the French law states the following: "A married woman _ even if her marriage is based on the condition of separating what belongs to her and what belongs to her husband _ is not permitted to give anything as a gift or to transfer any of her property or use it as collateral, or to take possession of anything whether in return for payment or otherwise, without her husband being a party to the contract or agreeing to it in writing."

In England, Henry VIII forbade the English woman to read the Bible. Until 1850 CE women were not counted as citizens, and until 1882 CE they did not have any personal rights.

(Silsilat Maqaarinah al-Adyaan, by Dr. Ahmad Shalaby, vol. 3, p. 210-213)

As for contemporary woman in Europe, America and other industrial nations, she is a creature which is degraded and abused for commercial purposes. She is a feature of advertising campaigns, and things have reached a stage where she takes off her clothes in order to advertise products on posters, and she sells and displays her body according to systems devised by men, so that she is no more than an object of pleasure for them in every place.

Woman is cared for so long as she is able to give and contribute physically or mentally. When she becomes old and cannot give any more, society _ individuals and institutions _ forsakes her and she lives alone in her house or in a mental hospital.

Compare this _ and there is no comparison _ with the teachings of the Noble Qur'aan, in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"The believers, men and women, are Awliya' (helpers, supporters, friends, protectors) of one another"

[al-Tawbah 9:71]

"And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable"

[al-Baqarah 2:228]

"And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in terms of honour.

And lower unto them the wing of submission and humility through mercy, and say: `My Lord! Bestow on them Your Mercy as they did bring me up when I was young'"[al-Isra' 17:23-24]

Since her Lord has honoured her in this way, it is clear to all of mankind that He has created her to be a mother, a wife, a daughter and a sister, so He prescribed laws which apply exclusively to women and not men.

From al-Islam Usooluhu wa Mabaadi'uhu by Dr. Muhammad `Abd-Allaah ibn Saalih al-Sahyeem (www.islam-qa.com)

10267: When did Islam begin and who started the Muslim tradition?

Question:

Who began the Muslim tradition, when did this faith start, what are the rules and how do you begin?


Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

If what you mean by the "Muslim tradition" is the Islamic religion itself, the answer will be given in the second section below.

1- But if what you mean is what the Muslim ummah (nation) has achieved down throughout the ages of prosperity, then this was not achieved in one instant, but it started when Islam started, especially after the establishment of the Islamic state at the time of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), then it started to flourish and develop as the Islamic conquests spread and reached the level that they did. If this can be attributed to anyone, it can only be attributed to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), after Allaah. With regard to other people, everyone contributed as much as he could until the structure (of the Muslim civilization) was complete.

2- With regard to the beginning of the religion, it seems that what is meant by religion is the religion of Islam with its beliefs and laws. This started with the mission of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).

With regard to the rules of Islam, they are many and it is difficult to list them all here, but the most important of them are:

The testimony that there is no god except Allaah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allaah; establishing regular prayer; paying the zakaah (obligatory charity, a share of one's wealth to be given to the poor); fasting in Ramadaan; and Hajj or pilgrimage to the Sacred House of Allaah.

An individual enters this religion after bearing witness that there is no god except Allaah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allaah, then after that he is obliged to adhere to the other pillars, prayer, fasting and Hajj. There are many further details involved in these matters. See also Question # 13569 shaykh Sa'd al-Humayd (www.islam-qa.com)

10590: The tolerance of Islam

Question:

How can we prove to non-Muslims that Islam is a tolerant and easy religion?

Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

Islam is the religion of mercy and kindness, the religion of tolerance and ease. Allaah has not burdened this ummah with more than it can bear. Whatever good it does, it will be rewarded for it, and whatever evil it does, it will have to bear the burden of that sin, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Allaah burdens not a person beyond his scope. He gets reward for that (good) which he has earned, and he is punished for that (evil) which he has earned"

[al-Baqarah 2:286]

Allaah has spared the Muslims any difficulty or hardship in all that He has enjoined upon them. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"He has chosen you (to convey His Message of Islamic Monotheism to mankind by inviting them to His religion of Islam), and has not laid upon you in religion any hardship"

[al-Hajj 22:78]

Every sin that a Muslim commits because he makes a mistake, or forgets, or is forced to do it, is forgiven by Allaah, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Our Lord! Punish us not if we forget or fall into error"

[al-Baqarah 2:286]

And Allaah says: your prayer is granted.

The Muslim will be brought to account for what he does deliberately, not for what he does by mistake, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"And there is no sin on you concerning that in which you made a mistake, except in regard to what your hearts deliberately intend"

[al-Ahzaab 33:5]

Allaah is Kind and Merciful. He sent Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) with ease and the tolerant monotheism:

"Allaah intends for you ease, and He does not want to make things difficult for you

[al-Baqarah 2:185 _ interpretation of the meaning]

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Religion is very easy and whoever overburdens himself in his religion will not be able to continue in that way. So you should not be extremists, but try to be near to perfection and receive the good tidings that you will be rewarded." (narrated by al-Bukhaari, 39).

The Shaytaan is man's greatest enemy. He makes him forget the remembrance of his Lord (dhikr) and makes his sin attractive to him, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Shaytaan (Satan) has overpowered them. So he has made them forget the remembrance of Allaah. They are the party of Shaytaan (Satan). Verily, it is the party of Shaytaan (Satan) that will be the losers![al-Mujaadilah 58:19]

What one's own nafs (self) says has been forgiven by Allaah, The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Allaah has forgiven my ummah for thoughts that cross their minds, so long as they do not speak of them or act upon them." (Narrated by Muslim, 127)

Whoever commits a sin then Allaah conceals it, it is not permissible for him to speak of it, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "All of my ummah will be fine except those who commit sin openly." (Narrated by Muslim, 2990).

If a person commits a sin then repents, Allaah will accept his repentance:

"your Lord has written (prescribed) Mercy for Himself, so that if any of you does evil in ignorance, and thereafter repents and does righteous good deeds (by obeying Allaah), then surely, He is OftForgiving, Most Merciful" [al-An'aam 6:54 _ interpretation of the meaning]

Allaah is Generous and Kind, He multiplies the reward for good deeds and forgives bad deeds, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, narrating the words of his Lord: "Allaah has decreed hasanaat (good deeds) and sayi'aat (bad deeds), then He explained that. Whoever intends to do a good deed then does not do it, Allaah will write it down as one complete hasanah; if he intends to do it then he does it, then Allaah will write it down as between ten and seven hundred hasanaat, or more. Whoever intends to do a bad deed, then he does not do it, Allaah will write it down as one complete hasanah; if he intends to do it then he does it, Allaah will write it down as one sayi'ah." (Agreed upon; narrated by al-Bukhaari, Kitaab al-Raqaa'iq, 81)

From Usool al-Deen al-Islami, by Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem al-Tuwayjri. (www.islam-qa.com)

12283: A Christian woman is asking whether her marriage to a Muslim is valid

Question:

I am a Christian woman, recently married to a Muslim man. Due to our different beliefs, we were married in a courthouse, as opposed to a Mosque. Does the Muslim belief still see this as a "real" marriage? I have researched this, and was surprised to read that the Islam belief does not honor this as a real wedding? Please confirm...I am very much in love with this man!


Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

Firstly: if the marriage contract was done with:

1. the proposal of your guardian _ who may be your father or whoever is acting in his place if he is not there, on the condition that he is of the same religion as you _ by his saying, for example, "I offer my daughter in marriage to you."

2. Acceptance on the part of the husband by saying, for example, "I accept."

3. The contract was done in the presence of two Muslim witnesses

_ then the marriage is valid. (For more details on the conditions of marriage, see question no. 2127 and the section on conditions of marriage on this web site). If any of these conditions is missing, then the marriage is not valid, and you have to do it again. The place where the marriage contract is done does not have any effect on the validity of the marriage.

Secondly: this question caught our attention because of your keen interest in finding out the rules of the Islamic religion concerning this matter. Perhaps this will lead you to enquire about greater realities, the most important of which is, which is the true religion?

Permit us to ask you the following questions:

Do you want a happy life? Do you care about finding contentment? Are you looking for the truth? Do you want a good and righteous life for your children?

If you do, then please _ may Allaah guide you and us to the truth _ consider the following:

That Allaah has created mankind for a great purpose, which is to worship Allaah alone with no partner or associate. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"And I (Allaah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone).

I seek not any provision from them (i.e. provision for themselves or for My creatures) nor do I ask that they should feed Me (i.e. feed themselves or My creatures).

Verily, Allaah is the AllProvider, Owner of Power, the Most Strong"

[al-Dhaariyaat 51:56-58]

Allaah sent the Messengers to call mankind to this purpose. He said (interpretation of the meaning):

"And verily, We have sent among every Ummah (community, nation) a Messenger (proclaiming): "Worship Allaah (Alone), and avoid (or keep away from) Taaghoot (all false deities, i.e. do not worship Taaghoot besides Allaah)." Then of them were some whom Allaah guided and of them were some upon whom the straying was justified. So travel through the land and see what was the end of those who denied (the truth)"

[al-Nahl 16:36]

Then Allaah sent the final Messenger, Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). He was the last of the Prophets and Messengers. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Muhammad is not the father of any of your men, but he is the Messenger of Allaah and the last (end) of the Prophets. And Allaah is Ever AllAware of everything"

[al-Ahzaab 33:40]

"Muhammad is the Messenger of Allaah. And those who are with him are severe against disbelievers, and merciful among themselves. You see them bowing and falling down prostrate (in prayer), seeking Bounty from Allaah and (His) Good Pleasure. The mark of them (i.e. of their Faith) is on their faces (foreheads) from the traces of prostration (during prayers). This is their description in the Tawraat (Torah). But their description in the Injeel (Gospel) is like a (sown) seed which sends forth its shoot, then makes it strong, and becomes thick and it stands straight on its stem, delighting the sowers, that He may enrage the disbelievers with them. Allaah has promised those among them who believe (i.e. all those who follow Islamic Monotheism, the religion of Prophet Muhammad till the Day of Resurrection) and do righteous good deeds, forgiveness and a mighty reward (i.e. Paradise)"

[al-Fath 48:29]

One of the reasons why He sent the Messengers was so as to establish proof against mankind, lest they say, "No Messenger came to us and no one told us that Allaah commanded us to worship Him." Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Verily, We have sent the Revelation to you (O Muhammad) as We sent the Revelation to Nooh (Noah) and the Prophets after him; We (also) sent the Revelation to Ibraaheem (Abraham), Ismaa`eel (Ishmael), Ishaaq (Isaac), Ya`qoob (Jacob), and AlAsbaat [the offspring of the twelve sons of Ya`qaab (Jacob)], `Eesa (Jesus), Ayyoob (Job), Yoonus (Jonah), Haaroon (Aaron), and Sulaymaan (Solomon); and to Daawood (David) We gave the Zaboor (Psalms).

And Messengers We have mentioned to you before, and Messengers We have not mentioned to you, — and to Moosa (Moses) Allaah spoke directly.

Messengers as bearers of good news as well as of warning in order that mankind should have no plea against Allaah after the (coming of) Messengers. And Allaah is Ever AllPowerful, AllWise [al-Nisaa' 4:163-165]

We call you, and everyone who does not follow the religion of Islam, to hasten to obey the command of Allaah by believing in Him alone, with no partner or associate, and to believe in His Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), whom Allaah sent to all of creation, men and jinn alike. Allaah has commanded them to do this, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):

"O mankind! Verily, there has come to you the Messenger (Muhammad) with the truth from your Lord. So believe in him, it is better for you. But if you disbelieve, then certainly to Allaah belongs all that is in the heavens and the earth. And Allaah is Ever AllKnowing, AllWise.

O people of the Scripture (Christians)! Do not exceed the limits in your religion, nor say of Allaah aught but the truth. The Messiah `Eesa (Jesus), son of Maryam (Mary), was (no more than) a Messenger of Allaah and His Word, ("Be!" — and he was) which He bestowed on Maryam (Mary) and a spirit (Rooh) created by Him; so believe in Allaah and His Messengers. Say not: "Three (trinity)!" Cease! (it is) better for you. For Allaah is (the only) One Ilaah (God), glory is to Him (Far Exalted is He) above having a son. To Him belongs all that is in the heavens and all that is in the earth. And Allaah is AllSufficient as a Disposer of affairs"

[al-Nisaa' 4:170-171]

Allaah has told us in His Noble Book (the Qur'aan) that He does not accept any religion other than Islam. Allaah says (interpretation of the meanings):

"And whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers"

[Aal `Imraan 3:85]

"Allaah bears witness that Laa ilaaha illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), and the angels, and those having knowledge (also give this witness); (He always) maintains His creation in justice. Laa ilaaha illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), the AllMighty, the All-Wise.

Truly, the religion with Allaah is Islam. Those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) did not differ except, out of mutual jealousy, after knowledge had come to them. And whoever disbelieves in the Ayaat (proofs, evidences, verses, signs, revelations, etc.) of Allaah, then surely, Allaah is Swift in calling to account [Aal `Imraan 3:18-19]

Do not forget that if you become Muslim, it will be better for your children, so that they will not be confused or suffer from mental anguish, and say, "Our father is a Muslim and our mother is a Christian, so who should we follow?"

Perhaps thinking through these matters more deeply will lead to a good result, by Allaah's leave. Strive to read a sound translation of the Qur'aan, which is considered to be the miracle of the Prophet of Islam, then read the biography of the Messenger Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and how Allaah granted success to him and his Companions, and how Allaah supported him with miracles, such as making water flow from between his fingers and the splitting the moon, when the mushrikoon (polytheists) asked for a sign _ so he commanded the moon to split, and it split in two _ and other events which are recorded in his Seerah (biography). And he also spoke of unseen matters which could not be known except by means of Revelation, such as when he said that the empires of the Persians and Romans (Byzantines) would be conquered before it happened, and other matters which are indicative of his Prophethood. We ask Allaah to guide us all.

Islam Q&A

Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid (www.islam-qa.com)

12376: Da'wah _ calling others to Islam

Question:

How should we call people to Islam?


Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

Allaah created man and caused him to dwell on this earth, but He did not forsake him. Rather He gave him what he needs of food, drink and clothing, and revealed to him throughout the ages a path to follow and be guided by. The interests and happiness of mankind at every time and in every place depend upon following the path of Allaah and rejecting all others:

"And verily, this (i.e. Allaah's Commandments mentioned in the above two Verses 151 and 152) is My straight path, so follow it, and follow not (other) paths, for they will separate you away from His path. This He has ordained for you that you may become AlMuttaqoon (the pious)"[al-An'aam 6:153 _ interpretation of the meaning]

Islam is the last of the heavenly religions and the Qur'aan is the last of the heavenly Books. Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is the last of the Prophets and Messengers. Allaah commanded him to convey this religion to all of mankind:

"this Qur'aan has been revealed to me that I may therewith warn you and whomsoever it may reach"[al-An'aam 6:18]

Allaah sent His Messenger Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) with Islam to all of mankind, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Say (O Muhammad): `O mankind! Verily, I am sent to you all as the Messenger of Allaah'"[al-A'raaf 7:158]

Da'wah or calling others to Islam is the best of deeds, because it involves guiding people to the Straight Path and to that which will bring them happiness in this world and in the Hereafter:

"And who is better in speech than he who [says: `My Lord is Allaah (believes in His Oneness),' and then stands firm (acts upon His Order), and] invites (men) to Allaah's (Islamic Monotheism), and does righteous deeds, and says: `I am one of the Muslims.'"[Fussilat 41:33 _ interpretation of the meaning]

Calling others to Islam is an honourable mission. This is the work of the Prophets and Messengers. The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) explained that his mission in life, and the mission of his followers, is to call people to Allaah. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Say (O Muhammad): `This is my way; I invite unto Allaah (i.e. to the Oneness of Allaah — Islamic Monotheism) with sure knowledge, I and whosoever follows me (also must invite others to Allaah, i.e. to the Oneness of Allaah — Islamic Monotheism with sure knowledge). And Glorified and Exalted be Allaah (above all that they associate as partners with Him). And I am not of the Mushrikoon (polytheists, pagans, idolaters and disbelievers in the Oneness of Allaah; those who worship others along with Allaah or set up rivals or partners to Allaah)'"[Yoosuf 12:108]

The Muslims in general and the scholars in particular are commanded to call people to Islam, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Let there arise out of you a group of people inviting to all that is good (Islam), enjoining Al-Ma`roof (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do) and forbidding Al-Munkar (polytheism and disbelief and all that Islam has forbidden). And it is they who are the successful"[Aal `Imraan 3:104]

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Convey from me even if it is (only) one aayah." (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3461)

Calling people to Allaah is an important task and a glorious mission, because it means calling people to worship Allaah alone. It means bringing them forth from darkness to the light, planting goodness in the place of evil and truth in the place of falsehood. Hence whoever does this needs to have knowledge, understanding, patience, forbearance, gentleness and kindness. He needs to give of his wealth and of himself, and he needs to understand people's circumstances and habits. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Invite (mankind, O Muhammad) to the way of your Lord (i.e. Islam) with wisdom (i.e. with the Divine Revelation and the Qur'aan) and fair preaching, and argue with them in a way that is better. Truly, your Lord knows best who has gone astray from His path, and He is the Best Aware of those who are guided"

[al-Nahl 16:125]

Allaah blessed His Messenger with the words (interpretation of the meaning):

"And by the Mercy of Allaah, you dealt with them gently. And had you been severe and harshhearted, they would have broken away from about you; so pass over (their faults), and ask (Allaah's) forgiveness for them; and consult them in the affairs"

[Aal `Imraan 3:159]

The daa'iyah (caller) may be faced with debates in his da'wah activities, especially with the People of the Book. Allaah has commanded us, if it reaches the point of debate, to debate in a manner that is better, which is with kindness and gentleness, explaining the principles of Islam as they came, pure and simple, in a kindly manner and with no element of compulsion. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"And argue not with the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians), unless it be in (a way) that is better (with good words and in good manner, inviting them to Islamic Monotheism with His Verses), except with such of them as do wrong; and say (to them): `We believe in that which has been revealed to us and revealed to you; our Ilaah (God) and your Ilaah (God) is One (i.e. Allaah), and to Him we have submitted (as Muslims)'"

[al-`Ankaboot 29:46]

Calling people to Allaah is a virtuous deed which brings great reward. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whoever calls others to guidance will have a reward like the rewards of those who follow him, without that detracting from their reward in any way. And whoever calls others to misguidance will have a burden of sin like the burden of those who follow him, without that detracting from their burden in any way."(Narrated by Muslim, 2674)

If building a physical structure needs effort and patience until it is complete, then building souls and guiding them to the truth also needs patience and sacrifice. The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) called people to Islam, patiently bearing the persecution of the kuffaar, Jews and hypocrites. They made fun of him and disbelieved in him; they insulted him and threw stones at him; they said that he was a sorcerer or a madman; they accused him of being a poet or a soothsayer _ but he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) bore all that with patience until Allaah granted him victory and caused His religion to prevail. So the daa'iyah must follow his example:

"So be patient (O Muhammad). Verily, the Promise of Allaah is true; and let not those who have no certainty of Faith discourage you from conveying Allaah's Message (which you are obliged to convey)[al-Room 30:60 _ interpretation of the meaning]

The Muslims must follow the example and guidance of their Messenger and call others to Islam, bearing insults and harm with patience for the sake of Allaah, as their Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did:

"Indeed in the Messenger of Allaah (Muhammad) you have a good example to follow for him who hopes for (the Meeting with) Allaah and the Last Day, and remembers Allaah much"

[al-Ahzaab 33:21 _ interpretation of the meaning]

The well-being and happiness of this ummah are only to be found in following this religion. Hence Allaah commanded us to convey the message to all of mankind, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):

"This (Qur'aan) is a Message for mankind (and a clear proof against them), in order that they may be warned thereby, and that they may know that He is the only One Ilaah (God — Allaah) — (none has the right to be worshipped but Allaah) — and that men of understanding may take heed [Ibraaheem 14:52]

From Usool al-Deen al-Islami by Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem al-Tuwayjri (www.islam-qa.com)

10134: Ruling on those who are not reached by the call of Islam

Question:

Will the people living in the remotest places on earth like the rainforests or the south pole, go to hell or heaven, the case being that they never encountered anyone or prophet, who has told them about Allah and Islam ?


Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

The best scholarly opinion concerning this type of people is that they will be put to the test on the Day of Resurrection. Whoever obeys will enter Paradise and whoever disobeys will enter Hell, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"And We never punish until We have sent a Messenger (to give warning)" [al-Israa' 17:15]

Majmoo' Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him), 1/456 (www.islam-qa.com)

12373: He is very close to Islam

Question:

Iam an hindu and i've been ferociouly inclined towards islam.a website like yours is the gift of allah to millions of young people like me.inshallah, i will very soon enter the world of islam.please do pray for me to enter islam. Let the good work of people like you continue by the grace of allah.


Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

We thank you for your commendation and congratulate you on your decision. We pray that Allaah will cause you to enter this religion sooner rather than later. We say: O Allaah, hasten to guide this slave of Yours to the Straight Path and decree that he be guided soon to the religion of Islam, for You are the All-hearing Who answers prayers.

Remember that you have to act upon your decision, for whomever Allaah decrees is to be guided, He will make smooth for him the path of ease (goodness). So respond to your Lord and utter the words of the Shahaadatayn (twin declaration of faith), and do the acts of worship prescribed in Islam. Remember that there is nothing to be gained by waiting any longer, because you do not know when your appointed time (of death) will come. Perhaps you know that delaying entering Islam will cause you to lose a lot of reward which you would have gained if you had done it sooner. The reward for every prayer, act of charity, fast, remembrance of Allaah (dhikr), upholding of family ties, reading Qur'aan etc., will be lost for as long as you delay. So go ahead and do not hesitate; be decisive and do not put if off. You should not think it is too great a step to change your religion, or be too concerned about the objections of family members. Whoever knows the truth will make sacrifices for its sake and will be patient in following it. We wish you strength, guidance and patience in following the truth. Peace be upon those who follow true guidance. .

Islam Q&A Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid (www.islam-qa.com)

11934: His Muslim wife's relatives are kaafirs who mistreat her

Question:

Me and my wife are in a delemma about our relatives. We both are the only muslims in among our families.
I'm in very close family they are there when you need help they're very supportive of me. My wife family isn't close to her at all nor are they close to our kids.My wife brothers talks to her as she are garbage, they cheat her out of her money by telling her lies of deciet, they drink, and commit adultery, and her sisters on the other hand threaten her a lot by calling "DCFS," they call her liers about everything, they disregard everything she say, and they have gatherings and she's not invited, and they all hate Islam and talks negative about it.Where do draw the line and say enough is enough. I know Islam teaches us to be kind to our family members but how do you deal with family that don't respect you and criticize you all the time. My wife get angry at me when I tell her about them, even though she knows how they are. What makes me very angry is that my wife brothers say things to her and she makes excuses for them about why they treat her this way that if I were to say similar she would blow the roof off the house,and if I asked them why they talk to her that way she would accuse me of making fitna. How do I deal with matter or how should she deal with matter. please advise

Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

Praise Allaah that your family is closely-knit and that you do not suffer the things that your wife suffers from her family. Appreciating this blessing fully will make you give thanks to your Lord and feel compassion for your wife because of the state of affairs with her family. This will motivate you to console her and stand beside her to ward off mistreatment from her, and boost her morale when she is faced with these attacks. Our advice to your wife is to bear her family's mistreatment with patience and to strive to call the individuals in her family who are less evil and more open to accepting the truth. Then if her kaafir family are causing her trouble, she can mix with them less, and make her visits to them brief and for a purpose. No Muslim is obliged to mix with kaafir relatives if he cannot bear their mistreatment, but he should strive to bear their mistreatment with patience and call them to Islam.

Islam Q&A

Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid (www.islam-qa.com)

12215: She is in a relationship with a Christian man and she wants him to become Muslim so she can marry him

Question:

Do you have any way, how to make someone concious about religion.i have problems that i can't figure out my self.

I have woman to man relationship ( now almost take three years ), this friend of mine is a christiant,we are planning to get married but i want him to be a moslem .
Pushing is not my intend,i want him to become a moslem sincerelly, i know hidayah is only from allah but we human must try the best...i'm not going to marry him if he is not a moslem...in the same time i want him to be my husband ...help me

Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

There are many ways of creating interest in Islam, such as reading the seerah (biography) of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), or reading about the miracles of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), or about his prevailing victories and the defeat of his enemies. One may also look at the beauties of Islam, or explain that the sharee'ah of Islam includes everything that is good, and that sharee'ah does not enjoin anything except that which is in accordance with reason and common sense, and it does not forbid anything without explaining what is wrong with it and putting people off it. For this reason people, Arabs and others, entered Islam voluntarily, without being forced. We advise this woman to put an end to her relationship with this Christian man which has lasted for so long and he is still persisting in his kufr. If he chooses Islam of his own free will, then he must be tested after that to be certain that he is sincere. He must also be told that if he goes back to Christianity after becoming Muslim, he is to be killed. (Because the punishment for apostasy in Islam is death. Whoever recognizes the true religion and enters it then leaves it, does not deserve to live. Hence the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, "Whoever changes his religion, kill him." This is what is to be applied if he is living in a country which is ruled by sharee'ah. The point is that this person should be informed of the seriousness of the matter. And Allaah is the source of strength.)

Shaykh Ibn Jibreen (www.islam-qa.com)

11936: It is not essential to have witnesses in order to enter Islam

Question:

My question is one concerning, when a non muslim wants to accept the Shahadah. Do witnesses need to be present? I remember a hadith mentioning a man who killed 99 ppl and was sent to heaven b/c of his intentions of coming towards islam?

Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

It is not essential for the one who wants to utter the twin testimony of faith (al-shahaadatayn) to have witnesses present. He may simply utter the words with his tongue, and that is sufficient for him to enter Islam.

Islam Q&A

Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid (www.islam-qa.com)

7453: He became Muslim and he has musical instruments _ what should he do with them?

Question:

I reverted to Islam in September 99, Alhamdoulillah. I was a guitar player. I would like to know if it is possible for me to sell my guitars? And what about equipment such as microphones, mixers, computers… that actually can be used for other purposes than making music, can I sell these? If I can not sell anything, what shall I do with them?


Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

We put this question to Shaykh `Abd-Allaah ibn `Abd al-Rahmaan ibn Jibreen (may Allaah preserve him), who answered as follows:

If they cannot be used for any permissible purpose _ and these things can only be used for haraam purposes in most cases _ then he has to destroy them. Whoever fears Allaah and does his duty towards Him, Allaah will show him a way out and grant him provision from sources he could never imagine.

For information on the rulings on music, please see question 5011 And Allaah knows best.

Shaykh `Abd-Allaah ibn `Abd al-Rahmaan ibn Jibreen (www.islam-qa.com)

11232: Giving a lecture about Islam in a church

Question:

Someone has been invited to give a lecture about Islam in a church. Should he accept?


Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

We put this question to Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-`Uthaymeen, may Allaah preserve him, who answered as follows:

This matter needs further examination, because the place is not appropriate, except in the unlikely event that it might be said that the Muslims are so powerful that they can proclaim their religion in the places of worship of the Christians. If this is the case, then it is good. But I am worried that it may be the opposite, i.e., that the Muslims are compelled to speak of their religion in the church. Hence I think that he should not do that, in order to avoid falling into this category (of being weak). And Allaah knows best.

Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-`Uthaymeen (www.islam-qa.com)

4036: She wants to embrace Islam but does not want to leave her kaafir husband

Question:

In the Islamic centres and when calling non-Muslim women to Islam, we are faced with the problem of the wife's attachment to her kaafir husband who does not want to become Muslim. It is difficult for the woman to sacrifice her marriage, especially when the couple has children and the husband treats her well and she feels a great deal of love for him. We know that if a kaafir woman becomes Muslim it is not permissible for her to remain in a marriage with a kaafir man, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): "… they are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them…" [al-Mumtahinah 60:10]. How should we deal with this problem? Is it permissible for us to focus on the issue of the woman becoming Muslim and ignore the rest of the matter?


Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

We put this question to Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-`Uthaymeen:

A woman says, I want to become Muslim, and my husband is good and I do not want to leave him. What should I do?

He answered:

"She has to leave him, but is it possible for her to call him to Islam? She could say, `I want to become Muslim, but if I become Muslim, the marriage will become null and void unless you become Muslim too.' Hopefully if she says this to him, he will become Muslim too.'"

Question:

If she become Muslim, can she stay in the marital home while she calls him to Islam, or should she leave?

Answer:

"If she is hopeful that he will become Muslim, she can stay in the marital home until the end of her `iddah (waiting period following the dissolution of a marriage)."

Question:

Can she uncover herself (go without hijab) during the `iddah or not?

Answer:

"To be on the safe side, she should not uncover, because there is no certainty that he will agree to become Muslim."

Question:

And she should not be alone with him?

Answer:

"And she should not be alone with him."

Question:

If telling her about this could turn her away from Islam, is it permissible for us according to sharee'ah to conceal the second part of the answer from her, so that we could tell her, "Become Muslim first, then we will tell you about the ruling on staying with your husband"?

Answer:

"No, if we say this, and then we tell her about the ruling and she leaves Islam (becomes an apostate), this will make the problem worse. For this reason the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told `Ali ibn Abi Taalib, when he sent him to the people of Khaybar: `Call them to Islam and tell them what they have to do in the way of duties towards Allaah.'"

Question:

So now if she continues to live with him after she becomes Muslim she is guilty of a major sin (kabeerah)?

Answer:

"Yes that is the case, but she should not persist in zinaa (unlawful sexual relationship)."

Question:

Briefly, how should we answer her?

Answer:

"Tell her: Become Muslim, and know that if you become Muslim and your husband does not, the marriage will become null and void."

When we are talking to women who will be faced with this issue, we should focus on the following points:

Giving priority to love for Allaah and His Messenger over love for anyone else.

If she is sincere in calling him to Islam and in praying for him, Allaah may guide him at her hands.

- Whoever gives up something for the sake of Allaah, Allaah will compensate him or her with something better.

Allaah will never forsake His slave who gives up something he or she loves for His sake.

When a woman like this becomes Muslim and leaves her husband, one of the Muslim brothers should come forward to marry her and take her children into his family, or good-hearted Muslims should undertake the responsibility of spending in charity on her and her children. We ask Allaah to guide us and grant us strength and help us to do the right thing. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad.

Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-`Uthaymeen (www.islam-qa.com)

8593: If he announces his Islam they will not give him a job; can he conceal his faith?

Question:

I embraced Islam about half a year ago. I'm very happy with all the changes in my life, that occured after having reverted, but I haven't been "registered" yet officially as a muslim. As I want to be a teacher on day, there is a big problem I face: Germany is not very tolerant towards muslim teachers, thus, it is very unlikely for me to get a job one day. I want to ask you now, if it is possible to hide my muslim faith, until I have my job? Can I practice it in private without telling it any governmental authorities?


Answer:

We put this question to Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-`Uthaymeen, may Allaah preserve him, who answered as follows:

He does not have to tell them about his being Muslim, and there is nothing wrong with him concealing his religion if he is afraid for himself.

And Allaah knows best.

Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-`Uthaymeen (www.islam-qa.com)

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